What is your definition of a meanful relationship??? Please be specific!!!
Love for me once was happiness. Sounds great doesn't it, but at what expense. Do you sacrafice your individuality? Your goals? Your sanity? Is a physical bond with a person unworthy of your affection really worth it???
I remember loving, caring, and wanting everything I did to include him. After a while all I got is disappointments. The things I loved to do... I convinced myself into believing that I didn't want to do them. Mainly because he refused to do them. Places I loved to go to... I told myself that I didn't want to go to them anymore. Because I knew that he woldn't participate. I became I a hollow shell in a fantasy world. A world I became accustomed to just to hold on to him. Damn... that's really sad. How do we convince ourselves that love is rejection, humiliation, and pain? I'm listening...
ReplyDeletePerhaps we become so in love and attached with the IDEA of having a relationship, that we sacrifice SELF to have one??? My definition of a meaningful relationship is rooted in growth. Bad times are inevitable, disagreements will happen, but when you're growing spiritually, intellectually, and educationally with your partner you become sources of support for each other, instead of victims of neediness.
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