Lack Of Home Training

Why is it that kids these days act as if they have no home training? Back in my day... you came to your friends house and they entertained you in the living room or their bedroom. You most definately didn't go parading through their houses, making sandwiches, roaming through the refrigerator, and snooping through their bathrooms. I came in my house and its people in my bathroom curling their hair and all kinds of crazy shit. Speak on it...

Love or Lust???

Are we loving with our souls or lusting with our flesh??? At one point in time I didn't know the difference. My degree of love was habitual. I thought because I had sex on the regular basis with a person, talk to them on the phone several times a day, in some situations even lived with the person... that I "loved" them. WRONG!!! There was no spiritual connections with these people or at least I hadn't discovered it. Yes I was agitated if someone was flirting with them. I was even mad if the didn't answered the phone when I called...yadda yadda yadda. But that's not love that is jealousy. Speak on it...

Relationships After Cheating???

Is it possible to remain in a meaningful relationship after one or both parties have cheated? I don't know. I feel that once you have trust issues it opens the door for a lot of other things. Such as jealousy, doubt, feelings of betrayal... what's your take on this...

Living At Home With Your Parents...Yes/No

Is there something wrong with living at home with your parents? It's a touchy subject. Me... I'm at home with my mother and I don't feel bad about it, because I do my part. I don't feel it's a problem as long as you carry your weight. What is your take on this???

Do Men Have Morals???

This goes out to the male population... do you have morals? I would like to know why or how you can get in relationships with women who have absolutely nothing going on for them besides what's in their pants? Women who have kids that do not provide for them. Women who lack education and can't hold a steady job. Women who are disrespectful to your children, family, and friends? I know this may not apply to a lot of you, because I know there are many good men out here. But for the chosen few of you... please comment

Common Consideration...

Why do some people swear that they are grown living with their parents, jobless???

I need to address this subject because many of my associates are dealing with this. How can you come in someone house where you don't pay the rent all hours of the night without keys and ring the doorbell like its okay. How do you give out the house phone number like its in your name and have hoes calling asking for you with an alias? Speak on it...

PUBLIC Hygiene

While riding the bus today... I was truly overwhelmed by this stinch. You all have smelled it before... arm pits with no form of deodorant. Real talk!!! We have witnessed people use the bathroom and not wash their hands, cough and don't cover their mouth, or pull money from their under garments to pay for a purchase. Where does the trifling behavior end??? Share with me...

Meaningful Relationships

What is your definition of a meanful relationship??? Please be specific!!!

Love for me once was happiness. Sounds great doesn't it, but at what expense. Do you sacrafice your individuality? Your goals? Your sanity? Is a physical bond with a person unworthy of your affection really worth it???

Teens and Sex

How do you approach teens in your life about sex and the consequences???

Grandama, Mother, Sister all had children in their teens... how do you discourage the future generation from making the same mistake???

Jail House Relationships

Is there a such thing???

Okay I know many women out here have been struck with this same situation... long-term boyfriend, husband, yadda yadda gets locked up. Is it possible to keep a relationship ongoing? Is it worth it?

Mandatory Child Support

Dear Readers,

Should child support be mandatory???

I know from experience that raising a child takes a lot of resources, and we're not just talking about financial ones either. I can't believe that men get agitated by the fact that some mothers have no choice but to turn them in for child support. To be perfectly honest with you I think mandatory visitation and parenting should be enforced as well. What's your say on it???